7 Dream Killers Preventing Your Success – #1 is Fear
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When I was a little girl, my grandma always told me that if I believed hard enough, my dreams would come true. Disney movies reinforced this idea, portraying a world where all the “good” people eventually lived happily ever after. But as I grew older, I realized life doesn’t always unfold like a fairy tale. Sometimes, even the best of us don’t get that happy ending, and sometimes, the “bad guys” end up winning. It feels unfair, doesn’t it?
That’s the reality of life—some dreams won’t come true, no matter how much we believe. Happily ever after isn’t guaranteed, and the disappointment from shattered dreams can be devastating. But the hardest part isn’t the disappointment itself—it’s daring to dream again after your heart has been crushed. The truth is, while we can’t ensure all of our dreams will come true, we can take steps to protect them from the dream killers that threaten to hold us back. One of the biggest threats to your dreams is fear—and it’s the first dream killer we’ll address in this series.
7 Dream Killers Preventing Your Success – Dream Killer #1: Fear
Fear is like heart disease for your dreams. It strikes at the core of your creativity and enthusiasm, much like heart disease blocks the flow of blood through your arteries. When fear takes over, it clogs your ability to think clearly, blocks your path forward, and can eventually kill your dream if you let it.
But here’s the good news: you can overcome fear. The first step is learning to recognize it and then take action.
How to Overcome Fear
- Acknowledge It:
The first step to overcoming fear is owning it. Don’t try to suppress your fear or pretend it’s not there. Feeling afraid is a normal human response—it’s just your brain’s way of warning you about potential danger. Acknowledge the fear for what it is but don’t dwell on it. Instead, take a moment to pause and then move to the next step quickly. - Expose It and Take Opposite Action:
Fear thrives in silence and secrecy. Once you acknowledge your fear, don’t keep it hidden. Talk about it with a trusted friend, mentor, or coach. When you expose your fear, the illusion of its threat often diminishes, allowing you to take bold action. If you’re unsure of your next steps, speaking your fears aloud can bring clarity and empower you to move forward in spite of them. - Practice Gratitude:
Fear can be relentless—it will chase you down unless you fight back. One of the most powerful weapons against fear is gratitude. It’s hard to feel both fearful and grateful at the same time. When fear threatens to overwhelm you, shift your focus by making a list of things you’re grateful for. The act of gratitude has a remarkable way of dissolving fear and freeing up your mind to see new possibilities.
The Power of Dreams
Dreams are the sparks that ignite your life’s purpose. When you nurture them, they will light your path to success. Achieving your dreams will bring you clarity, happiness, and a sense of fulfillment.
But if fear is holding you back, you’re not alone. I’ve worked with countless people who have struggled to dream again after facing setbacks. Together, we found ways to reclaim their passion and move forward with renewed energy and purpose.
If you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or afraid to dream again, I’d love to help you on your journey. You don’t have to do this alone. Join my mastermind group where you’ll learn how to develop a winning mindset, overcome fear, and take action toward the life you want.
Take the Next Step
Dreamers are world-changers, and that’s exactly who you are. You have the power to dream big, take risks, and become the CEO of YOU®. It’s time to stop telling the world what you can do and start showing them. Your dreams are worth fighting for. Believe in them, and you will fulfill your destiny.
Stay tuned for the next post in this series where we’ll explore Dream Killer #2: Low Self-Esteem. Until then, remember to Dream Big, Take Risks, and become the CEO of YOU®!
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Totally loving this! I consistently speak to people about staying determined to resist doubt & fear, the silent killers of dreams! Thank you for an Awesome read Doc! 🙌
Timothy thanks for the comment! I’m glad you enjoyed the article. We all struggle with fear and need all the reminders we can get. keep spreading the message!