7 Dream Killers Preventing Your Success – #6 Lack of Support

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7 Dream Killers Preventing Your Success – #6 Lack of Support

Part of life is experiencing ups and downs. During those tough times, we need people who understand us, believe in us, and can be depended on. We need people who listen to us and provide honest feedback, even when it’s difficult. Having a support system is more than just a “nice to have”—it’s essential for your mental, emotional, and even physical well-being.

Research has shown that people with strong social support have higher levels of well-being, better coping skills, and live longer healthier lives. A study published by the American Journal of Epidemiology found that individuals with a solid social network experience reduced levels of depression and anxiety. Support groups come in all sizes; some thrive with large networks, while others need just a few close, dependable connections.

At its core, giving and receiving support from others is a basic human need. However, it’s not just about quantity; it’s about quality. Your support system must empower and uplift you, not drain your energy. Surrounding yourself with the right people protects you from dream killer #6—Lack of Support.

Dream Killer #6 – Lack of Support

Lack of support is like osteoporosis—it weakens your foundation over time, creating cracks in your ability to stand strong. No one succeeds alone; we all need help. But choose your support wisely, because your strength will be tied to the strength of your support system.

How to Overcome a Lack of Support

Overcoming a lack of support starts with being intentional about who you surround yourself with and how you engage with them. Here are three ways to bolster your support system and safeguard your dreams:

1. Go Where You Are Celebrated, Not Tolerated

One of my favorite quotes says it all: “Go where you are celebrated, not tolerated.” It’s easy to fall into environments where people merely put up with you, but that’s not where you thrive. Seek out those who lift you up, those who celebrate your wins and support you through your struggles.

Take inventory of your environment this week. Listen to what the people around you are saying. Do they believe in your potential? If not, it’s time to make a change. Align yourself with people who speak life into your dreams and encourage your growth.

A great example of this comes from entrepreneur and author Jim Rohn, who famously said, “You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.” If you want to achieve your dreams, you need to be around people who push you to be better, who hold you accountable, and who help you believe in yourself.

2. Be Vulnerable to Receive Help

Don’t fall into the trap of thinking you have to be the Lone Ranger. Even the Lone Ranger had Tonto! One of the keys to success is cooperation and partnership. No matter how skilled or capable you are, trying to go it alone will eventually lead to burnout and frustration.

As an entrepreneur or practice owner, you might feel isolated, burdened with the weight of every decision and responsibility. But here’s the truth: asking for help doesn’t make you weak. It makes you wise.

A powerful story of vulnerability comes from Sheryl Sandberg, the COO of Facebook. After the sudden death of her husband, she openly shared how leaning on her support system helped her survive the hardest time of her life. Vulnerability wasn’t a weakness—it was her strength.

Being vulnerable and open to help can connect you to people who want to support you. Whether it’s advice, mentorship, or simply a listening ear, those connections are often what fuel your progress.

3. Be Willing to Help First

Don’t approach support with an entitlement mindset—no one owes you anything. The key to receiving support is first being willing to give it. As the saying goes, “Give, and you shall receive.”

Helping others succeed is one of the most powerful ways to ensure your own success. This is beautifully summed up by Zig Ziglar’s famous quote: “You will get all you want in life if you help enough other people get what they want.” Success isn’t just about watching out for yourself; it’s about lifting others up as you climb.

Brian Tracy echoes this sentiment, saying, “Successful people are always looking for opportunities to help others.” Those who focus on helping others are the ones who create lasting success for themselves. By helping others, you create a network of mutual support, where everyone is invested in each other’s success.

The Power of Support in Action

There was a time in my career when I felt completely overwhelmed and isolated. I was doing everything I could to keep my practice running, but it felt like the weight of the world was on my shoulders. Then, a colleague reached out and offered to lend a hand. Her support—both emotionally and professionally—made all the difference. It wasn’t just about having someone to talk to; it was about knowing that I wasn’t alone on this journey.

This experience reminded me of the power of community and support. Whether it’s a mastermind group, a few close friends, or a mentor who believes in you, having the right people in your corner can transform your entire outlook.

Are You Struggling to Find Support?

Do you feel stuck, overwhelmed, or discouraged in your life right now? Are you running a practice and feeling like you’re on this journey alone? If so, you’re not alone. Many people feel the same way, but there is hope.

I’ve helped countless individuals find more joy, clarity, and fulfillment by connecting them to the right people and resources. I would love to help you too! To learn more about how you can join our Optometry Divas community, and our mastermind groups, click HERE.

In my mastermind group, you’ll learn how to develop a winning mindset and overcome limitations like the lack of support. Together, we’ll create a strong foundation for your dreams. I look forward to helping you on your journey.

Dreamers Are World Changers

Dreamers are the ones who change the world. They are the ones who believe in the impossible and dare to take action. But dreamers don’t thrive alone—they need support, encouragement, and partnership to fulfill their destiny.

Dare to dream! Dare to believe! Dare to take action today! As the great Nelson Mandela said, “It always seems impossible until it’s done.”

Don’t tell the world what you can do—show the world what you can do. Believe in your dreams, fulfill your destiny, and become a world changer.

Take the Next Step

Discouragement and lack of support are inevitable challenges, but they don’t have to define your journey. You have the power to push through, regain your courage, and pursue your dreams with passion and purpose.

If you’re ready to dive deeper into overcoming Dream Killers, check out my eBook, 7 Dream Killers Preventing Your Success. It’s filled with actionable strategies to help you protect your dreams and keep moving forward.

ClickHERE to get your copy of 7 Dream Killers Preventing Your Success today! Stay tuned for the final post in this series: Dream Killer #7 – Unrealistic Expectations. Until then, remember to Dream Big, Take Risks, and become the CEO of YOU®!